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Vibe Coding Changed the Game: How Letting Go Reignited My Love of Learning
For most of my life, I felt like I had everything *except* the ability to code. I could write, build systems, sequence ideas, and teach. But code? That felt like a locked door that I wasn’t meant to open. I’m neurodivergent, a hyperlexic pattern-spotter who struggles...
Our Autism Journey
Our autism journey began quietly with just a growing sense in our hearts that something wasn’t quite right. My son was born here in the United States, and like most new parents, we were filled with dreams and plans. When he turned one, we moved back to India to be...
Losing Friends When You’re Neurodivergent: A Funny, Honest Look at Social Struggles
—or—"They Said ‘It’s Not You, It’s Your Social Skills" (Which Was Nice of Them) You ever lose a friend so quietly, you don’t even know they left until you realize you’re talking to yourself in the group chat like a schmendrik in the void? Oy, don’t get me started. 🧠...
Autism is Everywhere: Facts & Myths Over the Years
Neurodivergence isn’t new – despite the news. Autism isn’t a modern ‘epidemic’—it’s an enduring thread in human history, from prehistoric artisans to today’s tech innovators. To suggest that Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is a recent phenomenon is to neglect the very...
Is Autism Really on the Rise?
In today’s New York Times, Dr. Allen Frances suggests in a guest essay a reason why autism is on the rise. Dr. Frances is part of the task force overseeing the American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM) that defines mental disorders,...
We Educate the Whole Self
We have all heard the saying, “if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it,” but how do we judge if something is actually broken? Of course, the term “broken” is quite derogatory to Neurodivergent (ND) people, and for a good reason. Still, there is a point to be made here: when...
Navigating the Workplace: Tips for Neurodivergent Employees
More and more companies are recognizing the invaluable strengths that neurodiverse employees bring to the table. This growing awareness is fostering an environment where workplace accommodations are not just provided but normalized, allowing individuals like you to...
Finding the “Sweet” Spot in “Love on the Spectrum”
I was never a reality TV guy. I used to watch some of the singing and cooking competition shows, but even those have gotten boring for me. My wife, however, more than makes up for me. A few years ago, she started talking to me about “Love on the Spectrum,” way before...
Featured Resource: Association for Autism and Neurodiversity
The Association for Autism and Neurodiversity (AANE) is a nonprofit organization that has been supporting the autistic and neurodiverse community for over 25 years. Rooted in neurodiversity-affirming principles, AANE offers services and resources tailored to autistic...
Is Awareness Enough?
I was driving through a nearby town yesterday when I saw a police cruiser with a puzzle-piece bumper sticker for Autism Awareness Month. It warmed my heart to see that the village recognized autism enough to put a drop of money into stickers for their police units. Of...
